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With the vote almost upon us, there isn't a great deal that we in Croppy Towers can really add to the acres of print that have already covered the subject. Others, with greater eloquence and more at stake, have made the arguments under both constitutional and compassionate headings and they have been well made.

In a modern progressive society, no rights available to the majority of citizens should be arbitrarily withheld from a section of society on the basis of race, gender or sexual orientation. A re-framing of the definition of marriage to reflect evolving family structures is just that, a reflection of an emerging reality. Arguably, the rights of children are further protected by this proposed amendment rather than being put at risk. That to me (in my rather naïve and perhaps overly formalistic way) would seem to be the end of the argument; or at least that would conclude the part of the debate that relies on constitutional argument and appeals to higher principles of jurisprudence.  For the most part, what is left is conjecture, emotionalism, misunderstanding, questionable scholarship and in some instances, downright superstition.

It's not that I don't understand the concerns of the 'No Camp', it's just that this remains fundamentally a rights issue to me and however much people are concerned, their first duty should be to upholding the spirit of the constitution by amending it to better reflect the kind of equality that should be the touchstone of a true republic. That really is what we should be doing if we are actually 'thinking of the children'.

In the final analysis however, what really breaks my heart is that across Ireland, there will be people who vote against this amendment; people with brothers and sisters, sons and daughters, scattered across the globe. 

And in their hearts, they'll think they're doing the right thing by voting against this unsettling challenge to their well-worn world views and they will put to the back of their minds those men and women who left Ireland not just to find expression beyond the stultifying confines of a close-minded society but also and let's not forget this, to hide their 'shame' and to spare the shame of their families. 


 
That would be a nice cycle to break.



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